Determining Whether to Continue Your Relationship Interacting with Your Significant Other Building a Relationship with His Children Community Q&A So you've met the man of your dreams..he's got kids. There are a lot of ways that you could react to discovering that he has children, but if he truly is the man of your dreams you should be able to have a relationship with him and with his children.Also, know that regardless of how involved the father is, he is part of her children’s lives.You don’t have to be bros with the biological father, but be prepared to deal with another man in your woman’s life.Wasn’t I the same person who vowed to never date a man with a child? There are other men who are single, childless and worth getting to know. I was up for the challenge, and decided to give it shot.Alas, I admit, those were my exact words, but those words were also spoken by a much younger and not so much wiser version of myself. Obviously, there are several issues to deal with when someone has a child. Do you think you’ll get jealous when you have to share him, and can’t throw a tantrum because you’ll ‘look bad’ for being jealous of a child? trying to pacify the mother so his relationship with his child isn’t affected, and keeping his ‘woman’ comfortable.When kids predate dating, the couple’s relationship inherently creates competing attachments.
Check out some tips: There will be times you might not even be second (or third! Just know that her child’s schedule, meals and needs will come before yours.You should talk with your child about your new adult friends.Allow your youngster to express her feelings and opinions.You have to plan ahead to develop a meaningful relationship with a mom. You also need to give her adequate time to find childcare and free time.It is imperative to be prepared to adapt to unexpected circumstances: kids get sick, babysitters flake, school events pop up, and moms get tired and might not want to go out.